Since I left 2-nd university year and get married I keep a tidy, clean house and share domestic tasks with my husband. But suddenly household duties start to worried me in my 30th year.I wa wonder "What is happening to me!! "Surely I want to be an independent career woman with a life outside the home able to make conversations about things beyond soft furnishings and baking? Well, yes of course,but I was thinking and hope that all this changes not afect my fam. Well everythink it`s OK ,and I enjoy my work and I`m back to study again :P
Today I was reading about childrenhood who is missing to a lot of kids those days.They are send too early to childrengarden,where they learn a lot of things ,but not the same things like we was learn at homes from our moms.And yes,I think about my childrenhood,about my Mom who made me share my toys with other children and give to those less fortunate. She made me respect animals, even tiny spiders, and taught me how to love and be kind, putting the needs of others first.My mom didn’t really put pressure on me to achieve academically, just to do my best and try. And I was just love to try everythink.But my father did push me to achieve and was obsessed with me getting a profession even though my skills and personality were not suited to what he had in mind.He has never quite forgiven me for not signing up to his ideology of success and money above all things, and was horrified when I wanted to get married and just have a family.But to the end he was and it`s happy to be grandfather to my boy.It was a balanced fam. where I was a verrry lucky child.And this I try with my boy and at my work with all kids :)
Monday, 3 August 2009
I was in holiday and a little too busy after,but now I was listening to "Man in the mirror" and I just want to write about the man who died in this sommer.Michael Jackson,a great singer for whos death I was verrrry sorry.I wasn`t a fan before ,but some of his great hits I was listening very often.Now I was a little surprise to hear on radio that this song is on top 20.And I wonder why?Why this song?MJ had many others songs better then this...for me,this has always been my favourite MJ song hands down! It simply states something that is greater than going "out there" and being a "crusader of good". If every person cared about the person in the mirror , then the world would be a better place, simple, true and powerful message! Musically this song has a strong spirit and is one of the best MJ songs that has an "epic" approach to songs much like Earth Song. It`s a shame that it`s getting it`s success now after the demise of MJ. He would have been so happy.